I Just Don't Get It

As you all know, Dru didn't come this weekend. And I expected him to call this evening...but he didn't so I texted him and said, "How was your weekend?" to which he responded, "Unbelievable you have to hear this I'll call in a min." That was two hours ago. He hasn't called and I don't think he will tonight. It is highly likely that he is at a friend's house and doesn't want to be the guy to step away to talk to a girl. Or maybe he is at his parents house for Sunday night dinner. But the point is he said he would call 'in a min' and when I haven't talked to him in almost a week that really bothers me. I just don't know what to do. Now I actually have a reason to be mad, and I am. But I don't know how to tell him that. I feel like we are still on a shaky ground what without us having talked about what we are. I know it sounds silly and I keep coming back to it, but I don't know what to expect and that makes it hard because I get my hopes up. Without a defined relationship (of any sort) I don't know how he will receive me calling him out on what seems like such a petty matter. 

How should I approach this? Next time I talk to him do I tell him it bothers me that we don't talk much anymore? Ugh, this is so frustrating. I'm sorry I keep bogging everyone down with my love life, or lack there of, but it is the only thing on my mind, and until I get some kind of answers it will most likely still be the only thing I can think about. I appreciate the advice, as always.

Update: Ok so I guess I jinxed it by writing that post. He called. We caught up and all of that good stuff, but I didn't mention anything about me being mad or anything. I'm such a wimp. So I'm happy for now and promise to have a post that isn't related to Dru at all tomorrow!


HG said...

your relationship confuses me. i can't even imagine what it must be like for you. i'm kind of an all-or-nothing-girl though, so if i was you i would want a DTR talk ASAP! (define the relationship, in case you didn't know...) good luck and keep a sister posted!

ps- what was your reason for leaving the sorority? i'm sorry to hear you had a bad experience!

Auburn Kat said...

This was my first post that I read about this guy, so hopefully I will give you some good advice.

In my opinion, I don't think this guy is worth getting your hopes up for. Trust me, I know that's not what you want to hear, because if I was in your shoes I wouldn't want to be hearing it either. I've learned (the hard way) that when a guy doesn't do what he says he is going to do then he is not the type of guy that you want to be with. These guys can make friends but I personally try not to get a crush on them because in the end I get crushed.

I know that's easier said then done!