Follow Through

It is easy to make a plan. Or come up with a goal. But the follow through is the hardest part, right? I usually find excuses to not follow through with my goals, but last night I succeeded! I did a good thing! Yay me!

There is this guy that I used to be friendly with before Dru, I'm going to call him Frat Guy. There was no relationship which was good because neither of us wanted one. I've known him probably for 2 or 3 years now and had always thought he was cute. So we would occasionally hook-up (but never did during the Dru era). I've heard from him every weekend for the past few weeks but haven't seen him. Last night I saw him.

In my reformation, one of my main goals is to eliminate the negative influence of guys in my life. The relationship or lack-thereof with Frat Guy is probably not a positive thing because, let's face it, I'm not strong enough to handle that. So I told roommie that under no circumstances did I want him to come home with me. He and the alcohol tried very very hard to get me to change my mind but I stuck to my guns and had a peaceful night of sleep. Although I know what I'm missing out on, and let me tell you - it is great, I am happy with my decision.

I would be more than happy to explore a relationship with Frat Guy but I don't think that is what he is looking for. Roommie and I took him home from the bar and he kissed me in the car when he got out...with roommie in the passenger seat...weird. Then he called when I got home and attempted to make plans for the weekend after next. I'm confused by him, but I'm not letting it bother me. If he does want a relationship I think I'll be able to tell soon. If not, I'm crossing him off of the list.

Happy Friday everyone! (PS I realize I'm not doing a good job with my 'Foodie Fridays' but don't worry, I just got a new cookbook and I'll report back as soon as I make one of the recipes)


Tasha said...

Sounds like a fun guy to hang out with!

angelsroy33 said...

He does sound fun, but stick to your guns! Do what makes YOU happy and feel good,...and I'm glad you're happy w/ what you ended up doing. If he really wants more, he'll wait,...because it'll be worth it.(Do I sound like a Loreal commercial? OMG,-sorry.)